Ponder the difference between: I will try to love it and I will love it.
I will love it wins.
Ponder the difference between: I am going to do it and I will do it.
In my experience more often than not I do not do something I am going to do but I always do what I will do.
Wherein lies the difference?
When I say I am going to do it at that moment I literally am the thought of going to do it. I fantasize doing it, and for that moment I become the fantasy. The statement has literal meaning in that moment.
Instead when I say I will do it I engage the willpower, that mysterious ability in me to affect change into the world.